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  • Writer's pictureOlivia Lush

Thinking of seeing a sex worker instead of having some random threesome? You're not alone!



Seeing a sex worker can be helpful for your relationship! First things first, I have no interest in stealing your person.


I will always respect your limits, but that requires you to talk about them! My role in all of this is to make sure that you and your partner have an amazing time while being safe, but the rest is really up to you!


Having a boundary conversation will give you both insights into what works, and doesn't, when inviting someone else into the bedroom.


So, what else can a visit do for both of you, aside from making that anniversary or birthday completely unforgettable?


1. If you're looking to try new things in bed, this can be the perfect way to make that happen! Seeing a professional can help you both feel comfortable and explore your sexuality without any of the concerns you might have with some random stranger; you might even learn new things about each other that you didn't know before. Taking the time to explain what makes your connection so special can sometimes give you new insights into each other.


2. If you're bisexual and your husband is apprehensive about that first experience with a woman that you really need to feel whole, you can see a sex worker with him and explore your desires together. You can choose to participate as much or as little as you like, just make sure to communicate!


3. Want to see your husband with another woman? It's more common than you think! More than a third of couples who write sex workers are interested in this. By going to a professional, you can make sure that everyone is comfortable and that your experience is not only enjoyable, but gives you and both of your boundaries all the space that's needed to take the anxiety out of the process.


4. Talking about sex with your partner can be hard, but it's important for the long term health of your relationship! I can help you both find the right words to communicate what you like and what you don't like. Once you start talking, it becomes easier to keep the conversation going and improve your sex lives.


5. Lastly, I can teach both you and your partner new sex skills. I can show him how to please you and help you both explore new techniques. It's like going to school, but in the bedroom! Finding the right person is about trust, and finding the person who takes that trust and what makes your connection so unique seriously.


Don't be afraid to write me. It's the most difficult step. I'll help open the lines of communication between both of you and find out how to give you the perfect experience that'll leave you both talking about the fun you had for years to come.

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