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  • Writer's pictureOlivia Lush

Rediscovering dating

Losing a partner is one of the most painful experiences one can go through in life. It can be especially challenging to navigate the world of dating after such a loss. However, it is important to remember that everyone deserves love and companionship.

Here are some tips on rediscovering dating after the death of a partner:

Take your time

The grieving process is different for everyone and there is no set timeline for when it is "acceptable" to start dating again. Some people may feel ready to jump back into the dating world relatively quickly, while others may need more time to heal and process their emotions.

It is important to be patient with yourself and allow yourself to take as much time as you need. Rushing into a new relationship too soon can lead to complications and emotional baggage. Give yourself the space and time to grieve and heal before pursuing a new romantic connection.

Going to a legal brothel could be the right step for you to learn what it’s like to have another person in your space again. Learning to be affectionate and express yourself with someone new is one of many steps you’ll need to take to be comfortable in your own skin again, and an intimacy specialist can take things at the pace that’s most comfortable for you and help you approach that challenge on your own terms!

Explore your feelings

Before embarking on a new relationship, take some time to explore your feelings about your late partner's passing. It is common to feel guilty or disloyal for considering dating again, but it is important to remember that finding love again does not diminish the love you had for your previous partner.

Allow yourself to process your emotions and work through any feelings of guilt or hesitation. Talk to a therapist or counselor if you need help working through your emotions. Believe it or not, telling them about your trip to see an intimacy specialist might be the perfect way for them to help you establish goals, milestones, and give you the confidence you need to look for love again.

Be honest with potential partners

When you are ready to start dating again, it is important to be upfront with potential partners about your past. Be honest about your previous relationship and your partner's passing.

This may be difficult, but it is important to establish trust and transparency with your new partner. It also allows your potential partner to decide if they are comfortable pursuing a relationship with someone who has experienced such a significant loss. You can practice this skill on an outdate with me and get comfortable introducing yourself the right way to someone new. I’m here to help!

Take it slow

Rushing into a new commitment when you haven’t fully processed what happened can sabotage a new relationship. It’s very tempting to not truly face your loss and then try and simply point all of your needs and experience from your relationship on someone new. Having a ‘girlfriend experience’ can give you practice in making sure you’re ready and give you an environment where it’s safe to make mistakes and get feedback from a real human being. Get the practice you need!

Focus on the present

When starting a new relationship after the death of a partner, it is important to focus on the present rather than dwelling on the past. While it is natural to feel sadness or grief at times, it is important to live in the present moment and enjoy the new relationship.

Focus on building a connection with your new partner and creating new memories together. Allow yourself to enjoy the present moment without being consumed by thoughts of the past. Seeing me can help you come out of your shell and remind you of all the great things you have to offer to friends and more.

The death of a partner is a difficult and painful experience, but it is possible to find love and companionship again. When you are ready to start dating again, take your time, explore your feelings, and be honest with potential partners. Remember to take things slow and not compare your new relationship to your previous one. Focus on the present and enjoy the new connection you have created.

While it may take time to find the right person, opening yourself up to the possibility of love and companionship can be a beautiful way to move forward and honor the memory of your late partner. Let me help! Write me today!


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